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I'm a homebody. Always have been.

My ideal Friday night is spending time with my partner at home watching a good show or movie. Maybe read a book if I'm feeling ambitious.

Interior design has always been about aligning personality and environment. And for people like me who spend a lot of time at home, getting that environment right isn't optional; it's everything.

Now, whether you identify as an introvert or not doesn't really matter here.

If you've ever come home after a long day and your space made you feel more drained instead of less, this applies to you.

Everyone needs a home that helps them switch off. Some of us just need it more than others.

Here are four practical design tips that make it happen.

Build low-stimulation environments

If you want to keep things chill, stop making your space visually and mentally noisy.

Bright overhead lighting, clashing colours, or too many objects competing for attention, these things keep your brain switched on even when you're not aware of it.

Photo by Alex Lesage (left) & Amelia Stanwix (right)

• Reduce contrast. Swap high-contrast colour combos for softer palettes. Warm neutrals, muted greens, dusty blues. Not everything has to be beige — just avoid sharp visual clashes.
• Fix your lighting. Bad overhead lighting is the fastest way to kill a room's peaceful vibe. Aim for three softer light sources (floor lamps, table lamps) with warm bulbs.
• Edit surfaces aggressively. Coffee tables, shelves, and counters collect clutter faster than you realise.
• Control your "noise zones." If you struggle with decluttering, designate one or two spots as the clutter collector. Catch-all trays and bowls keep things visually and physically contained.

The goal isn't minimalism. It's reducing the level of sensory input your brain has to process.

Create a retreat space

Everyone needs a spot where they can mentally switch off. This can be especially hard in open-plan spaces, but retreat spaces don't need walls.

They can be as simple as a chair, a lamp, and a small table.

Reddit (left) & Hannah Busing (right)

When setting one up, use positioning to your advantage. Place your seating near a well-decorated wall or a window with a decent view. Put it away from the noisiest, busiest part of the room.

• Create soft boundaries. Rugs, bookshelves, curtains, and even a change in lighting can define a zone without any construction. Room dividers work brilliantly for this, too.
• Give the space a purpose, and keep everything else out. Be strict about what you allow in your retreat. If it's a reading corner, keep phones and tablets away. You can even name it. Sounds silly, but it helps your brain associate the area with actual downtime.

Textures and single colours over patterns

Bold patterns and bright colours can make a room feel jarring if you overdo it.

Layer materials with different textures instead. Use simple, uncomplicated colour palettes. Rugs, throw blankets, and upholstered pieces soften a space while keeping it interesting. And simple colour schemes go easy on the eyes.

• Mix natural textures. Wood, linen, cotton, wool, jute, rattan. These add depth without being overwhelming.
• Get tactile. The old adage about investing in things that come between you and the ground is well-founded. Upgrade that chair, sofa, bedding, pillow, or blanket for maximum cosiness.

Prioritise your needs

A lot of people design their space to be seen by guests, by Instagram followers, by anyone except the person who actually lives there.

Stop that.

Lauren Miller (left) & Paul Costello (right)

• Design for your habits and routines. If you're into movies, build a proper home theatre setup. If you write, get yourself a decent desk workspace. Ask yourself how the room actually gets used most often, and go in that direction.
• Decorate meaningfully. Display things that actually matter to you. Let your interests and hobbies take the front seat. The quirkier, the better.
• Be selfish. Ignore the temptation to optimise a space for people who rarely experience it. You don't need seating for 8 if you almost never have anyone over.

If you want to go deeper on this, check out my video on How To Design A Home That Works For Your Life.

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Cheers,

Reynard